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Guests or pests? (post 11)




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  1. Hi Medam my name is srisaisakthi.I completed master degree in Msc STATISTICS .my friend gave your book in ( LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE IT ).This book is very nice particularly story heroine ANKITA SHARMA very extraordinary character. Expertly story starting line I am the captain of my soul , I am the master of my fate very super line. I whanted your other books for hard copy in specimen .because iam poor family Medam.pls send other specimen books Medam pls

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  2. Guests, please be considerate, not demanding and don't get offended for every petty thing.

    Hosts be tolerant. There is some weight age to athidi devo bava :). Treat your guests with respect. They aren't all born to exploit your hospitality.

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  3. Guests, please be considerate, not demanding and don't get offended for every petty thing.

    Hosts be tolerant. There is some weight age to athidi devo bava :). Treat your guests with respect. They aren't all born to exploit your hospitality.

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  4. Good morning ma'am
    Your post has a come at such a right time..
    I've my main semester exams from the 20th of march and we are expecting guests from 15th and they'll be staying over for 10-20 days..
    I have no idea how am gonna cope up this situation because i tend to get frustrated with anyone who comes to talk to me during exams because of all the stress and now with the guests at my place I'll have to behave all cool and politely with them😞
    And i won't even get enough time to study..But am also excited because once my exams are finished i can hang out with them😋
    Byee..tc..keep smiling

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  5. Good morning ma'am
    Your post has a come at such a right time..
    I've my main semester exams from the 20th of march and we are expecting guests from 15th and they'll be staying over for 10-20 days..
    I have no idea how am gonna cope up this situation because i tend to get frustrated with anyone who comes to talk to me during exams because of all the stress and now with the guests at my place I'll have to behave all cool and politely with them😞
    And i won't even get enough time to study..But am also excited because once my exams are finished i can hang out with them😋
    Byee..tc..keep smiling

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  6. If I like the guest and feel the connect, then I go out of my way to entertain them. If I am not comfortable, then, I try to be nice, even though the difference is obvious!

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  7. Very much reminded of Paresh Rawal movie "Atithi tum Kab Jaoge". You have taken up a very nice topic madam.

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