Skip to main content


Showing posts from April, 2013

Never regret

So, there is this new series that I have started on my Facebook page. For the last few days, I have been posting visuals (that I create myself) with a powerful message, usually linked to my books. (Most of you who have read my books will know that almost all my books contain a message narrated through a racy story, full of twists and turns and love, much like life :) ) These have been so well received that they got more than 10,000 views within hours of posting!  I realised that some of my blog-readers may not be following my FB page. So thought I would post them here, every now and then. (not all at one go, but one at a time :) ) Here is the first one: Think about it. It is true. From each bitter experience that you have had, you have learnt something. You have changed in some way. And you wouldn't be where you are today but for your experiences. They make us grow. If you want to share anything that helped you grow, made you a better person, feel free to u

Meet me at Kolkata :)

If you happen to be in Kolkata on 26th April (Friday) I will be at Starmarks, South city Mall. Eminent fashion designer Agnimitra Paul will launch ' The Secret Wish list' and I will be in conversation with Prof.Arupa Lahiriy If you are on facebook, here is the link to the event page . I also got featured in two interviews today. Afternoon Voice (Mumbai) featured me. Womens Web too has published a really nice interview with me, where they have asked some questions which are different from the ones I am usually asked. I enjoyed doing that one. They are also doing a book-giveaway and for a chance to win a copy of 'The Secret Wish list' all you have to do is leave a comment on THEIR post.(Not on mine!) here is the link to the post: See you soon! And  if you can't make it, wish me luck please :-) (for Kolkata) _____________________

Get a Pet!

After that rather serious and depressing last post, I thought I would tell   show you  something that makes me happy. Very happy. Can you see the little fella in my hand? Yes? His name is Sparkle. :)  And he isn't alone. He has a partner too. Meet Snowy. Don't ask me why I got them. I don't know. They were just irresistible. I had no intentions really of getting them home. I swear. I was on my way back home after meeting Amish Tripathi   when I chanced upon a pet-store. Being the animal lover that I am, I instructed my driver to stop as I just wanted to have a quick look.(Pet stores in the UK are amazing and I wanted to see how the ones in India measure up). I have previously owned Hamsters (I have blogged about it). This time however, I didn't intend to buy anything. Honest! I looked at all the dwarf hamsters, the hamsters, the budgies and even the poor cats in cages (I felt very sorry for them) , the parakeets and the love-birds (I felt so

On rapes and child sexual abuse.

If you find strong language offensive or if you are under 18, please do not read this post. I am writing this disclaimer in the beginning as I know many of my friends children, read my posts. This post is definitely not for kids. ____________ ____________________________________________________________________ The recent bestial, horrific and utterly savage rape of the five year old leaves me sick to the pit of my stomach. Try as I might, I can't get over the horrifying brutality which that innocent would have been subjected to.  How can rape be explained? Psychologists and Sociologists have differing views. (One of my numerous degrees is a masters in Sociology which also happens to be a subject that fascinates me). Psychologists say that the  Rapists are mentally unsound and have probably been subject to a lot of atrocities, cruelties, while growing up. Sociologists feel that rape is about gender inequality. It is about expression of power and  dominance. Men rape,  to

A good day.

Usually I write only when I am alone, after the spouse and kids leave. That is when I get 'quality, undisturbed time'. But the Summer vacation has ensured that I get no such luxury as the kids are at home  all the time and so I work as and when I can. These days I am working on my fifth book and I am already half-way through writing it. This morning, when I was writing, I forgot to shut the door and my eleven year old daughter slowly sidled upto me and sat quietly watching me work.  Since I was in the middle of a paragraph, I did not stop writing and I continued till I reached the end of the page, fully aware of the two little eyes beside me, reading every word on the screen. When I reached the end of the page, I stopped. 'Mummy, how do you write all this stuff? Do you just make it up?' she asked, her voice filled with wonder and awe. 'Yes,' I make it up.'  'Wow!' she said in hushed tones, her voice a whisper, full of awe. I smiled and h

The best investment you will ever make.

  And so the  above picture that I posted on my Author page on FB yesterday got a record number of 'likes' and 'comments' within 15 hours of  it's posting.  The caption that I gave for the pic was ' Showing off new dress from UK gifted by Satish :) Pic clicked on 13th April 2013.' Reading some of the things people have said, thought I would do a post on.....  five things that the pic doesn't tell you :-) 1. If it's hard to lose weight (and keep it off) after the age of 30, it is bleddy hard after you hit forty. :-) Your metabolism slows down like crazy! 2. It is even harder after you have two kids! However it becomes slightly easier if you own a Doberman :D 3. I have a new workout regime that I haven't missed for the past 12 days, no matter how tired I am.(and some days I am drop-dead tired!)  I do 24 minutes on the treadmill either on the Incline cycle or the fast-slow cycle. (fast is 8.1 kmph and slow is 4.2kmph). I also tr

5 reasons why you should not 'chill'

A phrase I hear every now and then is 'Chill' or 'Relax'. From what I understand what the person who says this means is 'Do not take it so seriously. Let it go' or 'Don't do anything about it. It will pass.' Nothing irks me more than hearing these phrases. Here are five reasons why you should NOT ' chill' or 'relax'. 1. Chilling never got anyone anywhere:   Dhoni was a football goal keeper, before he started playing cricket. he started off his cricket career, just be sheer chance, as a wicket keeper. Dhoni's teacher Mr.Banerjee was friends with the coach of Commando Cricket Club. Banerjee got a request from the coach to help fill the slot of wicket keeper. Had Banerjee decided to 'chill' and do nothing about the request, and when asked if he would wicket-keep, had Dhoni decided to 'chill' I don't think the game of cricket would have been what it is today :-) 2.Chilling means no action : Think about the

On dogs and humans (part 2.)

A few days back I had written a guest post for Dog with Blog. For those who do not know about Dog with Blog--this is what their FB introduction says: Building a vibrant community for dog lovers,striving for adoption and animal welfare through posting relevant news and stories & everything else concerning environment & dogs! Spread the dogs we trust! We are not an NGO, empathy is all we ask :) Before you read this post, I urge you read the guest post  I wrote. It got a lot of appreciation and response. Here is the link: In continuation with that post, here is what I would like to say: 1. Though both the pictures posted in the guest blog-post are 'cute' pictures, let me assure you, Dobes (short for doberman) are hounds and guard dogs. They are NOT 'cute-cuddly' toy dogs. They will guard their owner with their life and will not hesitate to go for the throat of anyo