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Staying connected (blog marathon post 4)

On Saturdays, my day day begins with checking how my column looks in print in The Financial Chronicle. For those who are not aware, I write a column every Saturday called 'Sex and the city' in the Financial Chronicle. It has everything to do with man-woman relationships, sex, love, how men and women are different etc. I cover a range of topics. If you want to read it, you can either you can find it online, or you could pick up a physical copy (recommended) :)

This was my column today.


One of the things I love doing is reading a  newspaper with a cup of coffee, in the mornings. I read multiple newspapers. I mostly skip the depressing or salacious stuff. I like reading the middle, the editorials and I also like 'The Speaking Tree' in Times of India, which has spiritual pieces.

We went to the multiplex yesterday and watched Me before You. It is rated 8.1 on IMDB and the movie is beautiful. I must say though that I liked Waiting, better.

There was an important message in the movie: That if you love someone, you just accept them for who they are. You may not agree or like the choices they make. But if you truly love them, then you do not try and change their minds to what you think is right. The choices they make are right for them. You accept and support them.

Thank you to all of you who left a comment on my son's blog.  ( For those who haven't read my last post, they are a collection of photos that he clicks with a little write-up about each post) .It has been getting a really nice response.

That's all from me from today.
See you again tomorrow!



 Ps: I keep posting pics like the above on my Instagram and also on my snapchat.
My snapchat id is Preeti.Shenoy
My Instagram id is also Preeti.Shenoy

If you want to see what I am up to in pictures, please follow me :) I don't post that many pictures on my blog.

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  1. Cant miss your article in FC. Too good. And my day began to support completing the school project of my kid on History. Planning for 'Waiing' tonight, if he permits..!!! :) #StayConnected

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    1. Did you manage to watch? Forgot to say its an adults only movie.

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  2. Madam, as your day begins with going through newspapers with a cuppa of tea likewise my Saturday begins with reading your article in FC with of course a cuppa of tea. Your blog marathons always fill up those gaps of seven days in between.
    Thanks for staying connected with your readers.

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    1. Thanks a lot Sanjay. Much appreciate your support!

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  3. Morning cup of coffee while skimming through the newspaper is a luxury for me

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    1. :)Hope you are able to indulge in the luxury sometime!

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  4. Morning cup of coffee while skimming through the newspaper is a luxury for me

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  5. You should read the second book as well, After You. It's beautiful!

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    1. Haven't read the book. Have only seen the movie.

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  6. I normally read your article on Sex and the city online. It really makes me happy that you write about issues which affect many people everyday. We may love someone for who they are and we must appreciate them even if their views are different from ours. I have found myself trying to change people, but in the end I realized that that's who they are and this is how I am :-) By the way, I visit Atul's blog on a daily basis and it is really nice to see his photographs and description for each photograph. :-)

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