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What is love?

Love is a lot of things to a lot of people, but if you ask me what it is I would say this:

Love is when you have that goofy look in your eyes and your smile stretches across your whole face and you still get goosebumps, listening to the song he dedicated to you, seventeen years back.

Love is when you still do crazy things like calling each other thrice a day even though you're in the same town.

Love is still waiting to see each other at the end of the day.

Love is that pride in his eyes when he sees me at the book-events signing copies.

Love is him telling all his friends about me, proudly.
 

Love is fighting like crazy but still hugging each other at the end of the day, because you can't sleep otherwise.

Love is doing something you hate, just because the other person loves it.

Love is each one thinking that they are lucky to have got the other person.

Love is something that casts a warm glow in your heart.

Love is him pushing me to write my fourth book and keeping on checking the progress.

Love is still feeling a bit (a teeny weeny bit) jealous when I say that some guy looks handsome. (hehheh, I do it  sometimes just to listen to him swear :D)

Love is his telling me that to the world I may be a best-selling author, but to him I am still the same girl he married. :) (hmmmph--and you would think I deserve some respect! :D)

Love is saying cheeky things because you know you can get away with it :)


Love is what has stood the test of time.



This is the song that he dedicated to me, when he was wooing me :)
I still love it* blush blush* :)  (yeah I am such a silly sentimentalist!)



 Listen to the lyrics.They make you go awww.


 

Happy anniversary Mr.Shenoy. :)
It's been seventeen amazing years! :) :) :)

With all my love
Mrs.Shenoy :)
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Comments

  1. hey preethi, this is anu:) wish you a lovely day, happy anniversary :) have a great day and lovely years ahead :) :) :) cheers !!!!!!!!!!

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  2. nice dedication :) :) happy anniversary yaar :)

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  3. Happy Anniversary! :)

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  4. Anonymous11:18 AM

    Congratulations to both of you.. Happy anniversary.. You must have had a wonderful journey.. And the pic is lovely Preeti .. :-)

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  5. May this love remain there forever! Preserved, protected and nurtured in your heart.
    Happy Anniversary.
    Jolly Ghuman.

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  6. aweee how romantic!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :))))))))))))))))))))))))

    lots of love to you both ..hearty congos on the anniv :)))))

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  7. Hi Preeti,
    Happy Anniversary to both of you.. Wish you many more years of togetherness.. :)

    Love is truly eternal :)

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  8. Happy Anniversary Mr and Mrs Shenoy. Here's to many many many many years of togetherness ! May the love continue to grow !

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  9. Hey Preethi,

    Happy Anniversary to both of you
    Have a blast :)

    Regards
    Shiny

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  10. I love your definations of LOVE :)
    Happy Anniversary to both of you :)
    May god bless you both with the best of both worlds!!

    Love,
    Chhavi

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  11. Anonymous12:30 PM

    Hi Preeti,

    Can i ask u one question ??
    I do same for the person.... but she doesn't :(

    Do u call it love still ???
    Is it possible to have love one side...???

    I can't even think for any other else .

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  12. Happy Anniversary :)

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  13. Happy Anniversary :):):)

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  14. Happy Anniversary Preeti ..
    Of late I have realized an interesting fact that -

    “Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.”

    You have been blessed with both parts of this phrase :)

    Cheers,
    Chris

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  15. Awww....!!! Happy Anniversary..!!!!

    Beautiful pic...*Nazar na lage*..!!

    I loved the "Love is "...reading it made em nostalgic.
    There used to be a column in Times of India -Love is, featuring the two cute and adorable characters.

    May God bless you both..!!!!
    Lots of Love and wishes your way..!!
    Gayu

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  16. Your post reflects love love and lot of love!!

    wish u many more love filled years
    njoy!

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  17. Wow! that's a beautiful way to celebrate the special occasion. Truly romantic! Honest and interesting piece of writing accompanied with a lovely track and a great pic.

    Wish you both a Happy Anniversary!! :) May this bond grows even stronger in times to come and remains full of love forever.

    God Bless!!

    Best regards,
    Aditya

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  18. Happy Anniversary to both of you...

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  19. wonderful!!!! Happy Anniversary to both of you !!! Have a wonderful day and wish you many many more years of love and togetherness!!!!

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  20. awww, awwwww and awwwwwwwwwwwww! Wishing you the happiest of anniversaries, and many many more blessed years ahead :). It's upto us how we choose to live our life....I always try to make it better n better.....I know you do too!

    Cheers to both of you!
    Much love n hugz
    Shachi

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  21. Hi Preeti & Satish ,
    Wish you a very happy Anniversary :) May you be always blessed .. Loved all ur definition of love... awwww they are sooo cute. I wish I could say at least half of these to some one .. ;)

    Lots of love & Best wishes,
    Nitu

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  22. Awww...how romantic..
    Happy Anniversary Ma'am:) Wishing you long lasting years of marital bliss
    :)
    God bless

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  23. TOUCHWOOD - to both of you and your love!

    Wishing you a very happy anniversary and many many centuries of together basking in each other's love always!

    AMEN

    Needless to add, lovely post :)

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  24. Aww......Happy Anniversary, you two...

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  25. Aww......Happy Anniversary, you two...

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  26. Aww......Happy Anniversary, you two...

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  27. Congrats on your marriage day guys :) :)

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  28. Wish you both a very happy anniversary....lovely post....:)

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  29. Love is the most beautiful thing that can happen...
    Congratulations for having experiencing it from past 17 years.

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  30. Happy Anniversary to both of u ..:))

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  31. Happy Anniversary Preeti

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  32. Wooow maaam
    u bth look so so so cute together. Inshaalllah u ppl will b together fr the rest of ur lives:*
    sorry for the belated happi anniversaryy..:(i saw it today morning...
    N uudi baba..!
    i was taken backkk..ur definations for love..woaw! U rock ma'm
    n seventeeen years is quite a huge tym n its realli great to see the magic n chemistry between u bth even after sucha long tym
    happi anniversay ma'm n sir..
    Lov u both.
    Keeep writing<3
    lov,
    tajwar rahaman

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  33. A lovely post Preeti.

    Happy Belated Anniversary. may you ans Satish and the kids have a 100s of more reasons and moments to Celebrate.

    I am so glad i met you in Delhi :)

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  34. been checking ur blog everyday for ur next post... finally... here it is! (yea i got addicted to ur blogathon! been enjoying each of ur posts:D) i missed reading u in the interim few days!
    u both luk awesome together :D "love"ly smiling faces:) happie anniversary :D
    can u post a family picture of urs... would like to see the four of u together :D
    Keep smiling! :D

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  35. A very very Happy Anniversary to you both. Wishing you both many more years of togetherness and love. God bless.

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  36. Holy shit, u`ve been married for seventeen years...WOW!!!!!

    Happy Anniversary....
    Ur posts bring a smile on my face!!!:-)

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  37. Happy Anniversary to you both and many more to come!

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  38. Wishing you guys a wonderful anniversary this year and for many many years to come !!

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  39. Wonderful post!!!! Belated wishes!!!!

    U look beautiful together:-))!!!!

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  40. Belated anniversary wishes! Wishing you this togetherness for eternity!

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  41. Yes, you guys look awesome together

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  42. awww thats so so sweet preeti. happy aniversary !!

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  43. I simply loved ur love
    happy anniversary

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  44. Awesome, peppy definitions of love from a very warm person - YOU!

    Happy Anniversary to Mrs and Mr. Shenoy! The two of you look so radiant and happy together, stay blessed in this togetherness always with God's love and grace.

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  45. aww..

    i wish everygirl gets her love of her life

    like you1!!!

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  46. Best Wishes. And hope to see you writing more of scintillating and beautiful stuffs.

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  47. Thank you so much all of you!
    truly appreciate the wishes.

    I have not replied individually this time--but have read (and appreciated) every single comment.

    @Raj: I don't know! I am truly no expert! unrequited love is painful. All the very best to you.

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