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When things go wrong. (blog marathon post 13)

Many a time things do not go according to our expectations. We desperately  want something but something else happens. We dread something occurring and we have to face just that. And then when we least expect it, life shines.
That is the beauty of life. That it is unpredictable. Sudden. Slow. Flowing.
At times languid, at times serene, at times tempestuous.
Nobody an predict how it will turn out, tomorrow.
Forget tomorrow, nobody can predict what will happen in just a day.

You can plan all that you want---but life totally takes over and before you realize it, it has spiraled out-of-control.

All you can do at such a time is weather it out. Wait for the storm to subside. Sail in muddy waters.

And as long as you can see the shore, just hang in there. You are going to be just fine.

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  1. Brilliant blog madam - very inspiring

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  2. Thanks a lot Mam! Really Motivating words!

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  3. who knows what destiny has in store for us.had we known our fate beforehand,will life be any interesting?

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  4. That's what Life is. I recollect one short story on eagles which ended with: "The eagle does not escape the storm. It simply uses the storm to lift it higher. It rises on the winds that bring the storm."
    It's on us how we want to take it. #Inspired Good Morning Preeti..!!!

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  6. very true and needy one...

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  7. So true.. Forget tomorrow, we don't know what's going to happen in the next second.But yes hang in there and take each moment at a time .

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