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Day 5, Seven days of positivity

Join the  7 days to positivity on Facebook as we can keep continuing the positivity there even after this experiment ends.

Here is what people have been saying about it
Sucheta Tiwari said
 This is a really great initiative. Much better than regular "self help" stuff (which is pretty run the mill, and frankly, da-uh, boring!), this is practical and actually works :)

Maddy said:  
Nice initiative Preeti. These postive feelings/thoughts.....even after months when somebody happen to see....they would read and relate atleast fewer things which they did not realize or record.... what positivity they spread for the day.

Today's 5 things I am grateful for:

1.My new pair of high-heels :) I totally dig high heels (have a few more pairs) and wear them every chance I get :P

2. This guy in my life :)

3.My ability to draw life like portraits

4.My ability to create stuff (I made this doll from a wooden peg)

5.  Always dogs and children gravitate to me :P I feel sooo good about this. This is just a stray that I am petting.

What a show off post this is :P
But fact is I do feel grateful for these things and where else can I show off but on my blog :P ?

Thank you for indulging me!
Have a great weekend folks

and let me tell you once again this positivity thing really works! :-)


  1. Your pencil sketch is beautiful..

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  3. haha nice show off...but I like it..this shows how u focus on every single detail in ur life..esp the heels..I know how ladies can go crazy over them..just the way it happened to me yday :D!...I started mine yday!

    keep it going preeti!

  4. This will definitely rub on a lot of people. It feels great to be grateful!

  5. Its great to show off on your own blog, glad you did it :)

    Really nice post, reminds me of a hymn from school - Count your blessings. Sometimes we forget the good things that we have and focus on the negatives, just simply listing down a few brings so much happiness and joy and in front of them the negatives just fade out.

  6. I love reading your posts!
    This positivity experiment is such a great idea. Its something very practical and makes one look beyond that 'little black dot' as you say.
    And it is working! :D
    I too have taken it up on my blog :

  7. Show off ! :) I am glad both dogs and kids gravitate to you. I am scared of dogs and apparently according to my frnds children are scared of me !!
    Heres my list for the day

  8. really a nice expt to keep our mind and body cool.


    Loved your heels pic :) You look great!!!

    The positivity experiment rocks :)

  10. Palsworld: Oh yes--works like a charm!

    Jyotiajay: yes!

    Ruch: heheheh..My two are looking forward to meeting u :)

    Yogita: Welcome aboard! yes--it helps to focus on small things :)

    Thinker: yes it does help to count smallest blessings

    Tranquility: yes! i agree :)

    Sagarika: God knows why women like them so much..But I guess men do too! :P :) welcome aboard the positivity club!

    Living at present: nice name! Welcome to my blog. Thank you--its a pencil portrait not a sketch :P :)

  11. sweet! :) i think ur def allowed to showoff on ur own blog! i realized that altho its quite hard to look for things that make u happy at becomes easier everyday!

    thanks to you for getting people to look at the glass half full! :)

  12. I love your pencil sketch... :-) been long time since i read your blog !!! missed it ! :-)


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