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You are never safe (post 8)


Nothing is predictable in life. Anything can strike us at any moment. You can take all the insurance in the world, but that will not prevent a tragedy from hitting you.
Often it isn't even our fault. Life isn't fair.

This is exactly what happens to Ayan, a 26 year old guy, working in a multinational in Pune.

Find out his story and read about it in A Hundred Little Flames.

Do you think we can do anything to protect ourselves? In what ways can we cushion these things that we have no control of?  Tell me in comments. I would love to hear your thoughts.

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  1. Very true ma'am. Nothing is predictable in life. But what we can do is live in the moment and enjoy life to the fullest. No one knows what tomorrow has in store for us. I really like this quote from Its all in the planets- Life your life in such a way that if you were to die tomorrow,you have no regrets.
    Can't wait to know Ayan's story.
    Bye ma'am. Take care.

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  2. Life is definitely unpredictable. We cannot do anything in this world to protect us from evil, diseases, accidents, etc. We just have to live life one day at a time. Nothing is predictable. One minute someone is alive and the next minute, you hear that they have passed on. All we can do is live life one day at a time, have no regrets, enjoy life to the fullest and most importantly, to be happy no matter what obstacles we are facing in our life.

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