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Saw these words in a friend's instant message window (the one that lets you customise what message you want your friends to read when u are away)

"I guess when you are young you just believe there will be many people with whom you will connect...Later in life you realise it happens only a few times"

I feel thats so true..and when you meet someone you feel you have a connection with its worth doing everything you can to keep in touch..Even if it means a one sided effort, its still worth it..Because eventually the other person too begins to feel the connection and responds...

Then again,there is a difference between a one sided effort and obsession..The former enriches your life..The latter destroys you completely..Its important to make the distinction and draw the fine line...

And once you correctly makethat distinction,you have mastered the art of relationships!!

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  1. Hi...
    I'm glad that you saw my blog and commented. You are right, we do seem to have very similar interests!

    I especially liked this post. A lot of times blogging seems like a one sided effort, but sometimes you can put yourself out there, then you meet someone new and that can be really nice!

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  2. Hey Preeti -

    Have been reading your posts froma real long time now!

    so well said in a succint fashion! Love the line on distinction - so very true!

    Keep posting

    Thanx
    Minu

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  3. Anonymous9:15 PM

    Hey Preeti-

    Have been reading your blog for a real long itme now!

    Loved the succint line on distinction- So very true!

    Keep posting

    Thnx
    Minu

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