I came across a beautifully written article today. It talked about why that one perfect relationship you had is ruining everything else. You can read the piece HERE.
It talks about how humans value only those things that they work for. And a relevant point that the writer Paul Hudsonmade is that if we work for something, it stays longer in our minds and the longer it stays in our minds, it becomes a large part of you.
That is precisely why the more time we spend with somebody, more attached we become to them. I had written about a thought that I found fascinating: 'You are the average of 5 people you spend most time with,' Click HERE to read what I had written.
A question I often get asked is 'How do I know if he/she is good for me?'
To know that, you have to ask yourself what your goals in life are. What matters most to you? Is it personal growth, intellectual stimulation, earning more money, starting something on your own or doing things that have always been on…
It talks about how humans value only those things that they work for. And a relevant point that the writer Paul Hudsonmade is that if we work for something, it stays longer in our minds and the longer it stays in our minds, it becomes a large part of you.
That is precisely why the more time we spend with somebody, more attached we become to them. I had written about a thought that I found fascinating: 'You are the average of 5 people you spend most time with,' Click HERE to read what I had written.
A question I often get asked is 'How do I know if he/she is good for me?'
To know that, you have to ask yourself what your goals in life are. What matters most to you? Is it personal growth, intellectual stimulation, earning more money, starting something on your own or doing things that have always been on…