Monday, August 30, 2010

A very special day

Some people have great difficulties saying "I love you" to the ones they really do. They want to. They would very much like to. But somehow the words get stuck in the throat or at a level deeper down and the best they can come up with is 'Take care' or 'See you soon' or something equivalent.

Me, I am quite shameless  expressive that way. If I feel it, I say it. I throw in a hug and maybe a  kiss too :-) Those that I love know I do :-)

Satish is quite shy when it comes to saying the words. When we first met 15 years ago, one of the first things he gave me was this tiny little clip-on bear whose hands (they were clips actually) would grasp the object they would cling to. To this day, I remember his exact words. He said  " I am a very shy guy. So this guy says 'I love you' " and he gave me that little bear (it fits in the palm of my hand) which I truly treasure to this day. (Yeah, I am so sentimental that way. Any expression of love and I am floored). This was before our marriage  at Mumbai airport, when I had gone to receive him. I am sure he was stunned when I grabbed him and kissed him right there in full public view. :-) I adored him all the more for it, while he squirmed, half in shock, half in embarrassment but a huge wide grin spreading across his face all the same.


Over the years, nothing has changed. (Thankfully) Except that I have raised my two children to say 'I love you' and to hug and kiss too. I get my large share of it daily. (Oh, how I love it and now  satish does too). Of course my children (just like me)  are very very selective to whom they say it.

We exchanged a lot of hugs and kisses and 'i love you' s today. Today is a special day after all. It is his birthday. :-)

This song I dedicate to you, Satish..(yeah, I am corny/silly/filmy  that way and very happily so :-) )


Various - Jiya Dhadak Dhadak Jaye .mp3
Found at bee mp3 search engine

And as for the words on the collage, you know how much I mean them too.
Happy Birthday Satish! You are loved a LOT.

27 comments:

  1. Very Happy birthday To Satish !

    :)
    I loved it to read this lovely post.

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  2. And i love it when i am the first one to read and comment on your posts :)

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  3. Could not be the first one to comment on this but what the heck. Am completely floored with this post and the song - one of my favourites too. Thanks so very much Preeti. Yes, I do not say it much as you have mentioned in the post but you know for me the world and universe revolves around the 3 of you. I do adore you three and life would not have been as good as it has been but for the 3 of you - I also feel you 3 are the biggest assets I have after all these years.

    Anyway just to prove I have changed over the years here I am saying Thanks you and that I love you too very much (the hug will be delivered in person and not via the net).

    Thanks for being my friend and guiding me through thick and thin.

    Love ya
    Satish

    ps the gifts were lovely and yet again surprised me as always.

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  4. Many more happy returns of the day sathish!!!

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  5. Happy Birthday Satish

    nice post P:)

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  6. awww it's so sweet. I m truly moved reading this .. you two are made for each other :) m getting emo luv ya both
    enjoy the entire day to the fullest

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  7. I can imagine. Me and my hubby are the exact same as you. I can hug and kiss anytime! and he cant get the words out as often as I wish! Anyways Happy bday to satish!!

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  8. I liked Satish's comment more than your post preeti :)
    Birthday wishes to the lucky husband.. may you always have each other by your side..why should one live even one day lesser than the other?

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  9. gud post....
    Happy Birthday Satish..
    Wish you ppl will be like this at 80's too..:P :P

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  10. Happy Birthday to Satish....

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  11. Such a lovely post Preeti. Happiest returns of the day to Satish :)

    I come from a very huggy-squeezy family and I cant help running and hugging ppl I love, esp after meeting them after a long time. Very sweet post Preeti :)

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  12. happy bday to Satish...:)

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  13. Thank you all for the wishes. Much appreciated. Had a fantastic day today with the 3 most important people to me. Could not be better.

    @Nischii - Difficult to change now to be honest. Will keep nagging Preeti even when I am 100. She is terrified of that prospect I must say. Imagine a 100 year old man chasing her even then. I just laugh.
    @tarabhatt - completely agree. Keep telling her that when we reach 100 we will switch off the light together after a long and fruitful life together. Not one minute before and not one minute after.

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  14. Many Many Happy Returns Of The Day Satish :-)

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  15. Wow! I have that clip-on teddy bear too. It is actually my sister's teddy but I have preserved it for her :). It was a rage after that song Chui Mui si tum lag ti ho...

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6vMWoJFgUYI

    Here's wishing Satish a very happy Birthday!

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  16. Such a beautiful post .Many many warm Wishes to Satish. May you and your family always be Happy and spread Happiness.


    Wishes,


    Inder

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  17. @Satish - Happy Birthday ! I am sure you had a fantastic day with Preeti and the kids !
    @Preeti - Aww ! Lovely Collage

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  18. Belated birthday wishes to Satish. Sweet post and great snaps :)

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  19. awwww! such a lovely post!! :D

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  20. wow....I just came back at the rite time!!so good to c u!! Hope ur family remains as is...!!

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  21. Awesome post. Its really important to let people know that you love them. ! Makes a huge difference ! :)

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  22. JaankI: thanks :) I agree and endorse :)

    Rohit: Touch wood :)

    Mamta: thanks :)

    Lakshmi: Thank you :)

    Ruch: thanks!!

    Inder: thank you so much!

    Varun: I watched the whole song :) I hadnt seen it before. Yeah mine is a doggie like creature actually.not really a bear.

    Guru:Thanks :)

    Deeti:Thanks :)

    Nandana: lucky you :) I was never hugged or kissed as a child.

    Prats:Thank you

    Nischii: :)

    Tara: Amen :)

    Freshonpixel: Same pinch!

    Aish: touch wood :)

    Point blank: thanks ! :)

    Sundari:Thank you

    Life begins: thank you so much!

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  23. Satish

    Speechless!

    *faints*

    <3 <3 <3

    Rest of the proclamtions in person..

    # Censored# :)

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  24. Awwwww...Belated Happy Birthday to Satish. Hope you guys had a great celebration :)

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  25. what a lovely post and an even lovelier comment by satish :)

    all my best wishes to you both

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  26. That was such a cute post and the words on the collage were the icing on the cake!

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  27. my husband's very shy too...i'm very big-mouthed when it comes to saying wht i feel...

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