tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post9023262980758638451..comments2024-03-25T15:49:59.208+05:30Comments on Preeti Shenoy's blog.: The shoes fit but they dont feel right.Preeti Shenoyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01626823872300694608noreply@blogger.comBlogger31125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-59306933181964422442007-11-24T07:20:00.000+05:302007-11-24T07:20:00.000+05:30Pri:Thanks for your kind words.SVK:Thanks my frien...Pri:Thanks for your kind words.<BR/><BR/>SVK:Thanks my friend..Sometimes you dont want the shoes to seem right.You just want the owner back, which you cannot have--no matter what.Preeti Shenoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01626823872300694608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-79490567827179851032007-11-23T15:51:00.000+05:302007-11-23T15:51:00.000+05:30Hey Preets that was a very touching peice you hav...Hey Preets that was a very touching peice you have written & brought tears to my eyes too & I can imagine how difficult it must have been for you..to try & fit into those shoes..but you have done it my friend...Only a daughter as wonderful as you, could have helped your mother to move on with life. Having known your parents has been the biggest blessing for Vijay & me & the relationship they shared has always been the role model we love to emulate. The pain will still be there, since the wound is new. But with time & your Father's blessing ..it will ease ..& you will be able to talk about him without wincing. Talk about him you must, as his was a life story many should know & learn from as we have done. We thank God we had the priveilage of knowing him &, now see that you really are a chip of the old block. One day the Shoes will seem right, Preets.svkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14083506790410896289noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-57479023339804151402007-11-21T11:56:00.000+05:302007-11-21T11:56:00.000+05:30hmm i can understand how it must feel...some voids...hmm i can understand how it must feel...some voids can never fill up...<BR/>take good care of ur mom...shes a brave woman and deserves to smile always ...<BR/><BR/>love and regards...Prihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01023126998314268275noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-17117677002754300952007-11-17T23:07:00.000+05:302007-11-17T23:07:00.000+05:30Kaylee: {Hugs}How are you feeling now?Scotty: You ...Kaylee: {Hugs}How are you feeling now?<BR/><BR/>Scotty: You have a great way of puttin git.Well said, my friend.Thank you.Preeti Shenoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01626823872300694608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-53182327292569744932007-11-17T22:50:00.000+05:302007-11-17T22:50:00.000+05:30I LOVED READING THAT POST :) I MADE TEAR COME OUT!...I LOVED READING THAT POST :) I MADE TEAR COME OUT!!!!!!!!KAYLEEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15482455511208786156noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-51261794180552968592007-11-17T18:22:00.000+05:302007-11-17T18:22:00.000+05:30Adi crazy,Sandhya:Thanks so much for your words.Th...Adi crazy,Sandhya:Thanks so much for your words.They have a power to heal.Preeti Shenoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01626823872300694608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-36689692944134794222007-11-17T18:21:00.000+05:302007-11-17T18:21:00.000+05:30xh:I hope so too.Romila:Welcome!Glad you enjoyed y...xh:I hope so too.<BR/><BR/>Romila:Welcome!Glad you enjoyed your stay.Preeti Shenoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01626823872300694608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-11436703936969295712007-11-17T18:20:00.000+05:302007-11-17T18:20:00.000+05:30Jonice,Niall: Thank you.I'm okay now.Sue: I hope s...Jonice,Niall: Thank you.I'm okay now.<BR/><BR/>Sue: I hope so.<BR/><BR/>Silvara:True--memories live on.<BR/><BR/>Suma:I'm oaky now--thanks Pal.<BR/><BR/>Keshi:True--they had a great time together--but one cannot stop missing him.<BR/><BR/>Ritu,Prats:Thank you for being so supportive.<BR/><BR/>Tys:I too didnt know till it happened to me.Preeti Shenoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01626823872300694608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-62158603742490732132007-11-17T16:35:00.000+05:302007-11-17T16:35:00.000+05:30They don't need to be a perfect fit though, do the...They don't need to be a perfect fit though, do they, really? They only need be comfortable enough to put a spring in someone else's step, yes?<BR/><BR/>Nice post, PS.Scottyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10532475769646281689noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-84408716888587560742007-11-17T12:50:00.000+05:302007-11-17T12:50:00.000+05:30i really cant imagine wht its like to lose a paren...i really cant imagine wht its like to lose a parent...i think i wud feel orphaned...iam just glad that ur mother has u...yep, i do understand that there will come a time whn the child becomes the father to a man..( or a mother to a woman)..<BR/><BR/>that shoe was bound to fitTys on Icehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09718530428063102986noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-15060927849104712132007-11-16T15:47:00.000+05:302007-11-16T15:47:00.000+05:30One thing i've known from what i've been reading t...One thing i've known from what i've been reading through this space. You are a very remarkable woman. Not many would have had such strength, but you still do and "your dad would have been mighty thrilled to see his baby daughter in this new role" I'm sure. <BR/>He's there smiling and taking you through...so there's no harm in grieving....**hugs you**<BR/>And your mom must be so proud, even though she's sad. Thats a phase of life none can step into...but the coming moments will always give her strength to take her forward and look back with a smilePratshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10849938760602815322noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-47240903293535911372007-11-16T15:15:00.000+05:302007-11-16T15:15:00.000+05:30Hi PS... This is a really touching post. The lonli...Hi PS... This is a really touching post. The lonliness your mom must feel is something we can empathise with, but can we ever understand it? I hope and pray your maa finds peace in her mind. With a daughter like you, it shudn't be that tough!<BR/><BR/>You make your mom proud, you make daughters like us proud and most of all Im certain you make ur dad proud!<BR/><BR/>**huggggsss**Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15365922320701555205noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-13773246451593655812007-11-16T14:19:00.000+05:302007-11-16T14:19:00.000+05:30vry touchy post.n seriously u hv done a great job....vry touchy post.<BR/><BR/>n seriously u hv done a great job.Sandhyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01789698032556673693noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-6706808902846599612007-11-16T13:56:00.000+05:302007-11-16T13:56:00.000+05:30I dont know what to write..."pain never really goe...I dont know what to write...<BR/><BR/>"pain never really goes away. It still feels raw"<BR/>Only if this line was not true.....<BR/><BR/>My eyes are wet.Adicrazyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15946961734623407876noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-29483665910129481562007-11-16T13:40:00.000+05:302007-11-16T13:40:00.000+05:30Came by your blog by accident. And actually found ...Came by your blog by accident. And actually found myself reading quite a lot of your posts. n loving every minute of it.Romilahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17454784146159583205noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-50073963828615606682007-11-16T09:26:00.000+05:302007-11-16T09:26:00.000+05:30*a gentle smile on my face* moments like this make...*a gentle smile on my face* moments like this make the life worth living than anything. You are brave. Hope the shoes give you strength to walk long miles...--xh--https://www.blogger.com/profile/12695674712856611416noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-8510571577206088622007-11-16T06:17:00.000+05:302007-11-16T06:17:00.000+05:30and may i say, your father would be very proud of ...and may i say, your father would be very proud of his lil girl...aMushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14191649124291527517noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-90528783039957645972007-11-16T06:12:00.000+05:302007-11-16T06:12:00.000+05:30Awww...preeti, what can i say to make you feel bet...Awww...preeti, what can i say to make you feel better...other than a *hug*...that's the thing about grieving for someone, u generally face it alone...<BR/><BR/>my dad too is marvellous...he can sense when my mom is down and makes sure he takes her out somewhere nice everyday...and the same with my mom, and now when i'm stupid enuf to look into the future, i get scared 'cos i really don't know how one will ever live without the other...<BR/><BR/>hey, read my *tagged* perhaps it will make u smile to see u know such weirdos:)<BR/><BR/>take care - suma...aMushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14191649124291527517noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-80218093999579436572007-11-16T05:57:00.000+05:302007-11-16T05:57:00.000+05:30A touching post...got me all teary PS.**My mom wou...A touching post...got me all teary PS.<BR/><BR/><BR/>**My mom would blush when my dad told her how pretty she looked.<BR/><BR/>thats so beautiful. Im glad she got the chance to feel that way with the man she loved. <BR/><BR/>Be happy for the memories sweetie...my mum became a widow at just 39. I dun mean to say ur mum's pain is any less than my mum's...but I think ur parents had a longer happy times together and thats a blessing.<BR/><BR/>Ur doing a great job...ur mum is lucky to hv a daughter like u.<BR/><BR/>HUGGGGGGGGGGGGZ!<BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-89944335698200462862007-11-16T04:23:00.000+05:302007-11-16T04:23:00.000+05:30Oh, that was beautiful.Obviously it must be incred...Oh, that was beautiful.<BR/>Obviously it must be incredibly hard for your Mum, but she had many happy years with your Dad, that I'm sure fill her heart everyday..not with joy, but with love, pure and simple.Devil Moodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16083722657651175729noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-69862666253073860852007-11-16T04:06:00.000+05:302007-11-16T04:06:00.000+05:30I can imagine your dad's pride in you, helping to ...I can imagine your dad's pride in you, helping to pick up the pieces and being strong and smiling for her.Suehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16294962658680385662noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-84421042105643945972007-11-16T03:32:00.000+05:302007-11-16T03:32:00.000+05:30I loved ur post about ur dad - my heart broke as I...I loved ur post about ur dad - my heart broke as I read this but it made me smile as well. <BR/><BR/>The memories always live on... :)Sighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14098437493811974422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-2589143371866916352007-11-16T02:08:00.000+05:302007-11-16T02:08:00.000+05:30This is very poigniant Preeti..very moving..I felt...This is very poigniant Preeti..very moving..I felt the same after my Mum died..she was the perfect complement to my Father..when she was gone..I had to be there for him. Let your tears come.Niall younghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11292269528065570161noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-14569634900854058072007-11-15T23:07:00.000+05:302007-11-15T23:07:00.000+05:30Oh dear, even feeling sorry for the pain that last...Oh dear, even feeling sorry for the pain that lasts on, I just cannot help seeing the beauty within your words.Jonicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04755683746283042750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-46898861970690599372007-11-15T21:48:00.000+05:302007-11-15T21:48:00.000+05:30J: Sometimes i get tired of smiling for everone.On...J: Sometimes i get tired of smiling for everone.On the blog I'm ALLOWED to grieve.Thanks J.<BR/><BR/>Misti: I'm okay most of the time--but at times the grief is intense.Thank you my friend.<BR/><BR/>R:Thank you so much for your kind words.I'm amazed you know my name--(considering that this is the first time you have left a comment)I'm wondering who R is.Do I know you?Preeti Shenoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01626823872300694608noreply@blogger.com