tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post5274323542063191894..comments2024-03-25T15:49:59.208+05:30Comments on Preeti Shenoy's blog.: Trying to be equalPreeti Shenoyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01626823872300694608noreply@blogger.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-71040344545709819342011-02-11T05:51:39.299+05:302011-02-11T05:51:39.299+05:30The battle of egos is ageless n i don't think ...The battle of egos is ageless n i don't think its really tht easy to let go either...i hv this battle everyday with my husband over really silly things...but when i read the title i actually thot it was about the battle of sexes where women r always trying to be equal to men etc etc...Rikahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03985152186939344611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-74556005731492330602011-01-18T02:22:07.610+05:302011-01-18T02:22:07.610+05:30Yeah. but sometimes it is really difficult to judg...Yeah. but sometimes it is really difficult to judge the relationship status.;)<br /><br />Anyways nice read. Like the way you write your posts. Becoming a fan of your blog :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-34237363240525537172011-01-17T22:01:17.356+05:302011-01-17T22:01:17.356+05:30Pia: thanks :)
Sucheta: Do see Vipul's point ...Pia: thanks :)<br /><br />Sucheta: Do see Vipul's point too. I agree that one has to be true to oneself. there is also a fine line between letting go and chasing too much, don't you think?<br /><br />Aparna: glad it did.Hope whatever it was is sorted out now.<br /><br />Sanjay: thanks so much for some nice things you have said :)Cheers!Preeti Shenoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01626823872300694608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-57194341327079724852011-01-17T22:01:03.518+05:302011-01-17T22:01:03.518+05:30Pia: thanks :)
Sucheta: Do see Vipul's point ...Pia: thanks :)<br /><br />Sucheta: Do see Vipul's point too. I agree that one has to be true to oneself. there is also a fine line between letting go and chasing too much, don't you think?<br /><br />Aparna: glad it did.Hope whatever it was is sorted out now.<br /><br />Sanjay: thanks so much for some nice things you have said :)Cheers!Preeti Shenoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01626823872300694608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-63182155616170106522011-01-17T21:57:49.232+05:302011-01-17T21:57:49.232+05:30weourlife: Welcome to my blog :) yes, we do, don&#...weourlife: Welcome to my blog :) yes, we do, don't we?<br /><br />Prathima: No, not easy at all. But not impossible either if we put our minds to it.<br /><br />Sheila: But do see Vipul's point too. he is also right.<br /><br />Palsworld: i guess most of us are like that.<br /><br />Aneesh: thanks so much.Preeti Shenoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01626823872300694608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-92175678030552200262011-01-17T21:55:24.724+05:302011-01-17T21:55:24.724+05:30Rajlakshmi: thanks :))
Piyush: I agree 100% with ...Rajlakshmi: thanks :))<br /><br />Piyush: I agree 100% with you about not taking loved ones for granted.<br /><br />Sona: Thanks :) happy pongal to you too :)<br /><br />Reflections: Please please please come back to blogosphere. I genuinely miss your posts.<br /><br />Ramesh: Not so sure if it is hardwired. I think it is a learnt behaviour.<br /><br />Justbecause2ppl: Thanks a lot and wish you the same.<br /><br />Manasa: Yes--I do keep my writing and thoughts simple :) (it takes work) Glad you noticed :) Thanks!<br /><br />Ishtdeep:Thanks :)Preeti Shenoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01626823872300694608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-3641774553733240772011-01-17T21:55:22.220+05:302011-01-17T21:55:22.220+05:30Rajlakshmi: thanks :))
Piyush: I agree 100% with ...Rajlakshmi: thanks :))<br /><br />Piyush: I agree 100% with you about not taking loved ones for granted.<br /><br />Sona: Thanks :) happy pongal to you too :)<br /><br />Reflections: Please please please come back to blogosphere. I genuinely miss your posts.<br /><br />Ramesh: Not so sure if it is hardwired. I think it is a learnt behaviour.<br /><br />Justbecause2ppl: Thanks a lot and wish you the same.<br /><br />Manasa: Yes--I do keep my writing and thoughts simple :) (it takes work) Glad you noticed :) Thanks!<br /><br />Ishtdeep:Thanks :)Preeti Shenoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01626823872300694608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-83768141663066488052011-01-17T21:51:38.839+05:302011-01-17T21:51:38.839+05:30Sundari: Thanks :)
Firecrystals: thank you :)
Vi...Sundari: Thanks :)<br /><br />Firecrystals: thank you :)<br /><br />Vipul:Well said and a good point made. But I think if a relationship is heading the 'down path' one always comes to know. Then one should not pursue needlessly if it is a one sided thing and the love is dead from the other person's side.<br /><br />SK:Thanks so much :)Preeti Shenoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01626823872300694608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-39890014217351817922011-01-17T09:18:34.674+05:302011-01-17T09:18:34.674+05:30Very Thoughtful post..made me think actually.Very Thoughtful post..made me think actually.Sundarihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17484104190822969534noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-28323759645453775862011-01-16T21:51:58.632+05:302011-01-16T21:51:58.632+05:30That is a nice thought.That is a nice thought.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-75147031497568330652011-01-16T20:38:38.551+05:302011-01-16T20:38:38.551+05:30Lovely Post..
Yeah generally we lost many good rel...Lovely Post..<br />Yeah generally we lost many good relations while fighting for equality. <br /><br />But I think sometimes fighting for <br />equality can be good too. Because sometimes u don't know where this relationship is going and if u keep bugging the other person after keeping aside your ego; maybe it will end up with break-up....<br /><br />So you need to be careful about that too.. <br /><br />Nice read :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-70741269255961806382011-01-16T18:32:20.106+05:302011-01-16T18:32:20.106+05:30Yes, right u r..we all do this in our day-to-day l...Yes, right u r..we all do this in our day-to-day life. More than the need to be 'equal' or better, it should remain just a kind gesture of'reciprocating expressed love' as u rightly put it...then the egos wouldnt play a part at all!<br />Lovely thought!Srikalahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07017311669070518951noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-28082184774938222922011-01-16T15:39:13.151+05:302011-01-16T15:39:13.151+05:30thats beautifully said. loved how you have related...thats beautifully said. loved how you have related it with your kids ...Rajlakshmihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05947753574286557864noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-5006578134904427212011-01-15T19:19:59.126+05:302011-01-15T19:19:59.126+05:30Nice thoughts Preeti.
If someone is making any k...Nice thoughts Preeti. <br /><br />If someone is making any kind of efforts for us, we should not take him/her for granted and IMO we should take care that we are not becoming taken for granted for others.Piyush jangidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07600246003243963515noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-63069249503323894682011-01-15T14:49:27.625+05:302011-01-15T14:49:27.625+05:30SO SO true :) things to ponder on,as always Preeti...SO SO true :) things to ponder on,as always Preeti<br />Happy Pongal :)<br />SonaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-23478935703762362722011-01-15T12:06:14.070+05:302011-01-15T12:06:14.070+05:30Agree, agree, AGREE;-DAgree, agree, AGREE;-DReflectionshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07306120391459083770noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-65965896465844001822011-01-15T08:56:21.476+05:302011-01-15T08:56:21.476+05:30OH yes, the need to be "equal" seems to ...OH yes, the need to be "equal" seems to be a primeval thing. We aren't always very good in accepting gifts, praise etc with grace without the need to be able to reciprocate immediately. Something hardwired into our genes perhaps ?Rameshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11782192840421019943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-55532357991620374902011-01-15T02:40:09.063+05:302011-01-15T02:40:09.063+05:30Well Said Preeti...life is short and you never kno...Well Said Preeti...life is short and you never know what happens the very next moment. People waste time and energy by hanging on to egos etc..Good one..WISH U and YOUR FAMILY a very Happy Sankranthi/Pongal/Lohri...Justbcos2pplfellinlovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17159150152244552823noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-56165868080109390082011-01-15T00:04:48.845+05:302011-01-15T00:04:48.845+05:30Rightly said Preethi.. I remember doing those tiff...Rightly said Preethi.. I remember doing those tiffs too as a child with my sister.. :) all the time.. Your posts are always so simple, straight forward yet conveys some message that will ponder your mind.. ! Thank you!Operation Crazyhousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06312720374756993796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-68347139295990411242011-01-14T23:36:12.018+05:302011-01-14T23:36:12.018+05:30Totally agree with What u have said.Totally agree with What u have said.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-29787025622981863482011-01-14T23:10:29.023+05:302011-01-14T23:10:29.023+05:30Nice post Preeti, Its absolutely true that we alwa...Nice post Preeti, Its absolutely true that we always try to make it equal..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-28125839595275547512011-01-14T22:47:57.376+05:302011-01-14T22:47:57.376+05:30How very true!I have tried but realized that it is...How very true!I have tried but realized that it is not easy turning "I" into "i":)Prathimahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16292232929801598492noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-63597130767985517832011-01-14T22:41:52.833+05:302011-01-14T22:41:52.833+05:30"Why should i be the one to call all the time..."Why should i be the one to call all the time?"....I have thought this to myself so many times but i made a new year resolution this year to never think like that again. It felt good to read the same words from you and it reiterated my resolution.<br />Nice start and end to the post!sheilahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00202210815880483144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-79049373293441023632011-01-14T22:09:18.250+05:302011-01-14T22:09:18.250+05:30I totally identified with this post, Preeti. When ...I totally identified with this post, Preeti. When someone gifts me something, I immediately start thinking of how can I better that gift :( Somehow, it's so ingrained that the thinking happens almost sub-consciously. I need to now be a little more aware of this fact.palsworldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03335844971003117045noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-90658264144941553072011-01-14T19:00:44.899+05:302011-01-14T19:00:44.899+05:30Good post. I totally agree with what you have to s...Good post. I totally agree with what you have to say. As long as i let go of 'I', i am the beneficiary.<br />Loved the flow of the post.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18383816482842124281noreply@blogger.com