tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post2149395037610726848..comments2024-03-25T15:49:59.208+05:30Comments on Preeti Shenoy's blog.: I only get jealous because I love youPreeti Shenoyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01626823872300694608noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-48081295356837515992011-12-28T11:58:36.745+05:302011-12-28T11:58:36.745+05:30Congratulations :) This post in one of the winners...Congratulations :) This post in one of the winners of 'Tejaswee Rao Blogging Awards - 2011' (TRBA 2011). We would like to create an ebook with all the winning entries in 47 categories on Feminism and Gender Issues in India (and one category on Animals Rights). Please do let us know if you are fine with your winning post/s being included in this ebook. (<a href="http://indianhomemaker.wordpress.com/2011/12/27/how-do-you-like-the-idea-of-compiling-all-the-winning-posts-into-an-ebook/" title="How do you like the idea of compiling all the winning posts into an ebook?" rel="nofollow"> Please click here</a> to let us know).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-28594982119635670972011-07-06T17:37:46.694+05:302011-07-06T17:37:46.694+05:30Hi Preeti, this is one thing I have always been af...Hi Preeti, this is one thing I have always been afraid of in a relationship or marriage. Being single is so very good is what I have always believed. But knowing that there exists someone who loves you and bring out a smile onto your face makes me think that its okay to have insecurities and jealousies but of course everything needs to have a line drawn. <br /><br />I too have felt similar situations with someone close enough to me though we are not in a relationship yet. But I can relate to what you mentioned because I tend to be insecure when she meets her other friends. I tend to be protective. I nvr thought i would feel this way ever in my life but i have been through this off late.Abhihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05417188735929213427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-26444284399709264082011-06-21T15:13:42.852+05:302011-06-21T15:13:42.852+05:30Yes, every word is true.. Letting the other person...Yes, every word is true.. Letting the other person have a life of their own is very important in a relation... <br /><br />All of this is true when you are together..When my husband had to moved to Dubai leaving me and our baby for a few months, I knew I missed him, but still loved that life a lot.. I think a break was required for me to understand how independent i was still and how i actually missed him.. And thats how this post evolved.. do lemme know what u think - http://zradar.wordpress.com/2010/10/11/the-best-thing-about-marriage-2/Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-9566538065904178832011-06-20T11:16:55.210+05:302011-06-20T11:16:55.210+05:30Loved the post Preeti and I dont use the verb ligh...Loved the post Preeti and I dont use the verb lightly. I planned to write a longer comment but it didnt happen. Cdnt let the post go without letting u know how I felt. Thank U....:-))!!!!Reflectionshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07306120391459083770noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-19650536615525262592011-06-18T20:26:22.894+05:302011-06-18T20:26:22.894+05:30Dear Preeti :)
i saw name of ur books on flipcart ...Dear Preeti :)<br />i saw name of ur books on flipcart and after reading their description I'm willing to read them soon. I suppose they are feel good books and I do need to read such books :)<br />anyway, so I was searching about you and I found ur blog and I saw this post. I'm currently going through the same problem in my life. But it seems so easy when you read about such things, but it isn't very easy to convince ur lover/husband to think like dt...<br />Plz do tell me, how r u supposed to make the other person realize without hurting their feelings :(NiHa~~https://www.blogger.com/profile/04313523071069628205noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-40515760160358557522011-06-17T22:41:51.812+05:302011-06-17T22:41:51.812+05:30Prathima: nice to have friendships like that!
Vid...Prathima: nice to have friendships like that!<br /><br />Vidya: Oh you are right--so many change overnight. They drop their friends without even a moments hesitation after finding "The one".They act like they are the ONLY couple getting married in the world :) Amuses me no end.<br /><br />Pointblank: Salsa is NOT having sex! It is not 'intimate dancing" :) Will write a post on it some time. I have learnt salsa..will explain it all in the post.<br /><br />Tarnag:Thanks!<br /><br />UJ:Thanks!Preeti Shenoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01626823872300694608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-75496830603547119292011-06-17T22:38:04.371+05:302011-06-17T22:38:04.371+05:30Sucheta: Absolutely.
Tan: do watch the movie '...Sucheta: Absolutely.<br /><br />Tan: do watch the movie 'when a man loves a woman'. You will get your answer to the question you raised.<br /><br />Abha: very true. Thanks :)<br /><br />Swati:Thanks :)<br /><br />Shachi: Thanks :) Yes but possesiveness does stem out of jealousy and that 'me-mine' fatcor. That should b squished is all I am saying. Let the other person <i>be</i>Preeti Shenoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01626823872300694608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-66235740208875774642011-06-17T22:10:01.120+05:302011-06-17T22:10:01.120+05:30Absolutely wonderful post.
every relationship nee...Absolutely wonderful post. <br />every relationship needs space. Marriage especially so, I guess.Sucheta Tiwarihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03967049609309174392noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-67337190141843029852011-06-17T22:06:42.743+05:302011-06-17T22:06:42.743+05:30Hi Preeti,
This is a thought provoking post and I...Hi Preeti,<br /><br />This is a thought provoking post and I too believe in giving space and complete freedom to each other. <br />However, shouldn't we know where to draw the line? What about an alcoholic husband? We cannot let a husband keep on drinking alcohol just because drinking makes him happy. <br /><br />This is a doubt that cropped up while reading your post. Can you please share your thoughts?Tanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17219866978243155466noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-88288086547003732432011-06-17T16:02:00.883+05:302011-06-17T16:02:00.883+05:30I totally agree with u. If both the spouse have t...I totally agree with u. If both the spouse have their own friends esp school and college mates, meeting with them can be refreshing and you have something to tell your spouse about. That keeps the freshness in a marriage. Common friends are good , but no harm in having a few friends form your youth days and cultivating that relationship. I have connected with my college friends after more than 2 decades via Facebook and it is a lovely feeling.Aabha Vatsahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04105062008310904959noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-33238230856257626422011-06-17T14:54:03.103+05:302011-06-17T14:54:03.103+05:30Lovely post ..very aptLovely post ..very aptSwatihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14263330596396584816noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-26214733681726907452011-06-16T21:01:12.465+05:302011-06-16T21:01:12.465+05:30The #1 reason why my marriage works is because of ...The #1 reason why my marriage works is because of the freedom we give each other....maybe too much sometimes ;). <br /><br />Jealousy is a negative thing, but sometimes due to lack of trust, even caring n possessiveness can be misunderstood as jealousy. There is a fine line between the two.<br /><br />Great post! Bang on!Shachihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05008713817905152623noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-37683773315517777022011-06-16T20:23:16.073+05:302011-06-16T20:23:16.073+05:30Very nice post Preeti. I know I have changed afte...Very nice post Preeti. I know I have changed after marriage, but then, true friendship will understand that ? I am sure, i can call up a friend and we will start chatting like we were never away:)Prathimahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16292232929801598492noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-12134899043252324312011-06-16T16:36:07.219+05:302011-06-16T16:36:07.219+05:30A very thoughtful post!!! you have put everything ...A very thoughtful post!!! you have put everything so beautifully....<br />I am sure all married people especially women would go through such a state of mind atleast once in their life....<br />You are right....true love doesnt impose conditions.....Trust is the basis for any relationship.....<br />I have seen many people who change overnight just because they got engaged or married....<br />ur post is a real eye opener!!!Vidyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10902251933827065144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-80781499664812528852011-06-16T15:25:45.100+05:302011-06-16T15:25:45.100+05:30This is so beautifully written :) I strongly belie...This is so beautifully written :) I strongly believe that if u truly love someone, u should let them do what they want. "Space" is very important in relationships. But smtimes Iam unsure of where to draw the line. For eg: One of my female friends loved dancing and wanted to join salsa classes. But her boyfriend was not supporting cuz it involved dancing intimately with the opposite sex. Though I totally get my friend's passion for dancing, I couldn't blame the guy as well. A lot depends on how u have been brought up. I believe in giving space, am totally ok if my guy has a boy's night out or travel abroad with his friends. Infact, I even encourage it. But am not sure if I will be completely okay if he enrolls for salsa. I might not stop him, but I might not be completely ok either.Pointblankhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14236961643105447595noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-68835332152057591632011-06-16T15:20:35.190+05:302011-06-16T15:20:35.190+05:30Very factual & insightful article indeed!Very factual & insightful article indeed!Tarang Sinhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10346902969017351667noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-80852300216482395022011-06-16T15:05:18.024+05:302011-06-16T15:05:18.024+05:30Amazing article Priti.. Loved every word of it :)Amazing article Priti.. Loved every word of it :)Ujhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04823045986633431033noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-76535360085886610282011-06-16T14:17:47.860+05:302011-06-16T14:17:47.860+05:30GB: An honour to have the author of these words co...GB: An honour to have the author of these words comment here! And I should thank <i>you</i> for saying it so well.<br /><br />IHM: Coming from a veteran and a marvellosu blogger as you, I take that as a HUGE compliment.Thank you so much!Preeti Shenoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01626823872300694608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-52370298214403087292011-06-16T13:50:24.913+05:302011-06-16T13:50:24.913+05:30Absolutely loved this post and GB's post too.Absolutely loved this post and GB's post too.Indian Home Makerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10649133480442907582noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36418670.post-91684824258526994792011-06-16T12:37:01.699+05:302011-06-16T12:37:01.699+05:30Phoenixritu pointed me here. Now I feel like a pro...Phoenixritu pointed me here. Now I feel like a prophet :D Thanks much!!GBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07590537839113796844noreply@blogger.com