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A silent plea.

This is a post I wrote on 7th September 2010.

This one I wrote on  7th September 2011.

And tomorrow is 7th September 2012 and I am again typing this from a tiny village in Kerala.

Six years.

You would think it hurts a little less by now.
 It doesn't.
You just learn to hide the pain better.

Please say a prayer for me.
And for him.

I need it.
Need all your love, positivity and prayers.

It helps.

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  1. It never hurts any lesser, alas. Prayer for you and for him and a hug to you too.

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  2. Anonymous7:28 PM

    Preeti, I will say a special prayer for you and for him. Just as you feel blessed to have had him as a part of your life, he would have felt blessed too. I believe that he is still watching over you, blessing you and feeling proud of all his little girl has achieved.

    I will pray that you are able to connect with him tomorrow. Just one soul with another. Without the limitations of relative existence.

    Shankari

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  3. The pain of losing a loved one can never get less.... I will surely pray for him today, for his soul to rest in peace and smile each time you look upto him just to let you know how much he is proud of you :)

    Take care!

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  4. Hugz, love, positivity, and prayers -all your way!

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  5. Anonymous8:22 PM

    You are right, the pain never lessens, you just learn to hide it better..((((hugs))))

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  6. Positive thoughts and hugs coming your way ! I cant even begin to imagine how tough this must be for you :(

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  7. Hugs to you and a and prayer for Dad

    --Seema

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  8. Anonymous10:15 PM

    hugs and prayers on your way..
    FP

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  9. Prayers to you and your family.

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  10. Prayings across the miles for your dad , yourself and your family.may he showers his blessings on all of u.God Bless !

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  11. It really hurts to loose a loved one someone who is very close to your heart , but good people never go away from us , they always remain in our hearts preeti .God bless you .

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  12. May his soul REST IN PEACE. And I hope God gives you strength to bear it :) Loads of love and hugs to you :)

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  13. Prayers, positivity and love your way!

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  14. Hugs, Prayers and lots of positivity to you, Preeti!

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  16. While time can heal most wounds, there still are certain losses that time cannot take away.

    My prayers are with you, for his soul and loads of love.

    you have spread so much of positivity through your writings - I truly beleive in what goes around comes around. Wishing the spirit of positivity to be with you forever.

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  17. saying a huge huge prayer for him, and for u and your family too... I pray that the lord gives you the stength to bear it... also sending loads of love , positivity and a big fat bear hug to u!God bless!

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  18. Prayers to him as well as you Preethi... His blessings will always lead you way ahead..

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  19. My prayers for your dad…God bless you and your family. Best wishes always!

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  20. A silent prayer for the ONE I know; through you,
    exactly the way you knew HIM,
    With the same Love you Planted in Us for HIM,
    I feel sure HE is their and will be...for YOU...for US..because we WELCOME the Day of our Life's with
    Words ... the words which meant LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE IT!...and its by YOU..through HIM!!...
    Love and Hugs to you!!..

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  21. Prayers for your Dad and your family!!!!

    Hugs!!!!

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  22. hey Prayers on it's way!! It never hurts less - so rightly said!! Sure your dad is watching you from above and feeling all proud!! Hugs!!

    -Durga

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  23. Prayer and peace for you and your family. God bless you.

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  24. Thank you so very much , santosh, Durga,Anusha,Obsessive mom, tarang, devangana, my3shenoy,

    Ruchika: Thanks so much--your words brought much comfort.

    Vincy: thanks a lot. I have indeed inherited his positivity.

    Thanks a lot Gayu,Krupa,sridevi, paarul,Ariel.

    Thank you so much, FP, Seema,Ruchira, Ruminateatleisure,shachi, me, shankari

    Ramesh: thanks from the heart.

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  25. Dear Preeti,

    I feel happy that I could at-least be of some comfort to you.And its proved that anything where Heart is involved...its never untouched!..it does work its Magic & my prayers were straight from Heart.

    One thing I adore so much in you is that you opened-up yourself for us to be a part of your Day - A day where you would have probably wanted to be with just yourself remembering all that you never forgot. And above all you were so dedicated us that you did reply to Each and all....I really ADORE you for this..for being so very Human...Loved you more!!...tc.

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  26. Come and play with me
    My dearest little angel,
    I am here, there and everywhere

    The day you were born..
    I stopped dreaming, because
    All my dreams came true

    Those hands of you I held
    Are still very tender as your heart
    Those smiles and laughter
    Are celebrations for ever ..
    …….
    The “Fourth” for the entire world to read..
    Let me be your first listener….
    Read aloud
    I am here….
    Sitting besides you…..
    The same way I did
    When you were reciting
    Your first KG rhymes….
    Come and play…
    My heart ground is waiting…

    A little tribute to your father and your bond. He is always with you Preeti and feeling happy for you.

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  27. Maddy: thanks so much.

    Ruchika: The words did bring comfort..and I think of him always! Every single day.
    It mattered to me that folks who read it were kind enough to leave words of comfort. they really help. I do mean whatever I write and say on the blog.
    So how could I not respond?!

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